To be submissive is to know that you have been since as early as you can remember. Have you always felt that way?
What is it to be Submissive?
When you feel that you want to give over your sexual power to a woman and let her call all the shots – you are submissive. As long as you can remember, you felt this way. You wanted to serve. You didn’t know how or why – you just wanted to be in front of a woman and let her take control of you. Is this you? Do you want to feel this, and be this, and live this? If you are anywhere a submissive, the answer is yes.
How Do You Begin?
The first thing to consider is that you need to know what kind of sub you are. Yes, I said, what kind? It is important to know that you know who you are. Otherwise, this confuses a Mistress. For example, do you like pain? Are you effeminate? Are you into a woman controlling your orgasms? What about a chastity device? Are you into bondage? These are the types of things you should consider when you are wondering where you fit into the broad spectrum of BDSM. It’s important to consider!
Need to Talk it Through?
If you have given some thought as to what kind of sub you are and you are still confused, that’s how a phone Mistress can help. We are the kind of therapy you need when it comes to figuring out who and what you are. We can ask you questions, or maybe do some interrogation 😉 Â Can you imagine how that would be? I always have loved role playing the “bad cop.” It would be a fun way to get you to come to your senses about what kind of submissive you are after I have arrested you. Any takers on this? I’d love to try it on you!
I am submissive. I’ve always been shy and weak around women. I do want women to take control of me and be in female lead relationship. I think it’s finally happening with one of girls I’ve known as she told me she wants to know more about me. My masseuse knows as I’ve told her I like to wear women’s clothes/bra/panties/lipsticks/perfumes and she accepted me. Though she’s married she always sprays me in most/applies women’s smelling lotion on me during every massage I smell like a girl after and I’m fine with that. This one doesn’t know of my fetish of crossdressing. I so want to have her keep me the way she wants to but afraid to ask her.
I have a secret self I do not admit to – I like to do chores for women. It is more of a need than a desire. I know it is odd but it is just true. I have had this kind of “thing” a long time. It is there all the time but comes up a lot when I am attracted to a female but fearful of her and or know she would not date me in the way I would fantasize about. I have sometimes fallen in to situations where I can do chores for women and other times I have looked for those situations. I know it is odd that this feels good to me but it does.