BDSM Phone sex – what makes a great call?

If are you new, and confused about how this phone sex business works, I’ll let you know how to make it more comfortable for you – so that your Mistress is also more comfortable.

BDSM and Your Call

So how can you make a successful BDSM call? First of all, make sure you are adhering to our rules. Some Mistresses don’t do certain types of calls and if you are unsure, email the Mistress first to ask.

If you call and then find out she is not interested in your type of fetish, it won’t make for a fun call for either one of you.

Ask how to address her. If you are calling a Mistress, you must show some sign of respect by addressing her the way she likes to be addressed.

Communication is Key!

Communicate effectively what you are looking for. Starting off the call with a grunt, and saying you are “horny”, does not make for a fun or in-depth call. We don’t read minds. We love it when you can tell us exactly what you like – and if you don’t know, we’ll help you sort it out!

When you are done with the call, a simple, “Thank you, good bye” is great. Or even, a little chit chat if you want. Rudely hanging up is … confusing, and well, rude.

Mistress Reviews

If you love how your Mistress did, leave a review. At the bottom of this page is a way to rate the call. We love feedback! Especially good feedback. If you have a complaint, you can discuss it with your Mistress directly, if you want, so that you can have better calls in the future.

Other Ways to Have Fun

Explore! We have a ton of things to look at here at LDW – and many of the Mistresses have different essays, radio shows, etc going on and the more in tune you are with what you like!

Mistress Cecilia