Just don’t do it. You know what I am talking about, right? Those that try to run away from what is a deeply embedded sexual desire is probably never a good idea – unless, of course, it’s illegal. My point is, you CAN’T run away from it.
What To Do if You Feel the Urge to Purge
I know what you are thinking – usually, I find that this applies to crossdressers, but the reality is it can span across all fetishes I have found. What if you have the urge to never watch big black cock porn again? What if you lock up that chastity device into a locker hoping it never sees the light of day again? Burn all your sissy clothes? What then? Do you dive back into the world of vanilla again never to look back?
Probably not.
You probably purged because you felt the need to be “normal”. Society, your wife, your family, your employer says it’s not acceptable to be that way. But, besides being with your wife or girlfriend, when was the last time you saw anyone do anything behind closed doors?
So what do you do?
The thing is, that fetish probably developed early on – or you were just kinky and something happened along the way that caused you to discover who you really are, sexually speaking. It’s unlikely to just up and disappear. So, relish in it. If your significant other does not understand – I would say it’s not exactly fair to you to change who you are based on THEIR sexual desires or image of you. Remember, illusions are built up all the time.
Kinky Advice, Life Coaching in Sex and Instructing You
You have to carve out time for yourself. You have to be you. If those who don’t understand chastise you, then, you do it on your own time. No sense in offending their sensibilities, but no sense in being someone you are not. You have to understand this is why I’m so busy in calls. We are here to serve a purpose in your kinky therapy, your life goals in your pursuit of what is kinky in the universe and what is acceptable to you – not to someone else.
You just do you. And I’ll do you too. Don’t be afraid to be yourself – even if it is just between you and me.
Ms Cecilia
Sometimes you just have to find like minded people to exercise your kinky desires & actions. I am a kinky crossdresser & had a female friend who had said she was going to give me her sexy panties that her boyfriend at the time said he didn’t like her in .I knew right that relationship was not going to work. She is now free of him & i was hoping she woild get kinky with me & give me her panties but she isn’t interested I am disappointed but still out there looking 4 kinky women to share the pantry world
Ms Ceclilia!
This is fantastic advice. If someone is into feminization, trapped in the wrong biological body or if they enjoy a more kinkier fair in the bedroom, as you mentioned there is nothing inherently bad or wrong with it! Purging will never make those desires go away, and then you’d just feel guilty in addition to it all, for the wasted items / money!
Emotions run high with these sorts of issues, so prudent guidance is needed. I understand the desire, at times to reset, take a deep breath and “Not play” for a bit.
Practice putting away, not purging away. Mistress can help with this!
See you around the Empire!
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Hi, I have a problem with this one. I retreat and try to go back to “normal ” and then slowly start falling back down the rabbit hole again. For a couple of different reasons, I think. The reasons you mentioned certainly aoply. But I also have a ” corruption and conversion ” kink. I got a huge thrill the first time I “fell” into various kinks. I love the idea of fighting against it and losing.
But it also keeps me returning to a state of denial. Just today I had written a profile on my Second Life character, outing myself as a man going through changes. But I blanked it iut. Because I love the idea of being a woman, at least in Second life I can be.
But I also feel this,impulse to out my many kinky thrills and nature and burn my bridges. I thought you might enjoy knowing that you helped open a door for me. First time I called you, I was fascinated by the photos of you jutting that huge wine bottle from between your legs at the viewer. I wasn’t sure why they were getting to Lucifer. But you knew.
Wow Ms Cecilia, very hot n informative post not sure how i missed it, but very well said, and you are so very hot n sexy, love your pictures !! thanks for posting !! xoxos
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